Paradigms of Marriage is a thought-provoking and practical guide that aims to illuminate the key factors that contribute to either the success or failure of the marriage experience. Drawing from the author's journey of 48 years of marriage to Pamela (deceased) and his current wife, Petula, as well as insights from prominent relationship professionals, the book identifies ten essential factors that underlie many issues in marital relationships.
Employing the concept of paradigms, the book utilizes simple patterns and graphic illustrations to help readers comprehend and remember the crucial aspects that determine marital success. The central theme revolves around the contrasting dynamics of the "Pit" and "Paradise," where negative habits lead to pain, conflict, and disappointment, while positive habits foster pleasure, peace, and fulfillment.
Structured topically, each chapter begins with an introductory statement, followed by the author's reflections based on his extensive experience. The problem relating to the topic is then presented, alongside the corresponding paradigm and its explanation. Finally, the chapter provides practical solutions to resolve the identified issues and foster marital success.
While building upon the author's previous work, Making Marriage Meaningful, Paradigms of Marriage takes a more practical approach and represents the published form of the PowerPoint presentations used in the Marriage Motivational Series. By delving deeper into the issues explored in the presentations, the book offers readers a comprehensive understanding and actionable steps to cultivate a fulfilling and enduring marital relationship.
Contemporary marriages are facing relationship challenges caused by the shift in recent decades from the traditional pattern of marriages and family relationships to the current form of companionship or partnership relationships.
This new system requires special strategies for families to survive. Most people are unaware of the need for education to enjoy marital success. Consequently, about fifty percent of marriages in North America fail. This book addresses this need and offers a few bold solutions by using lessons from Biblical families blended with current ideas from marriage professionals.
Paradigms of Marriage with Companion Workbook
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